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Dramatic, relaxed and painless

13. Feb. 2025

Of course, it's a trick to put words together incoherently (plus then add "matching" music). We do this trick all the time. However, we don't realise that it's a trick, this constructivist way of thinking together.
We're constantly putting things together that don't belong together. No emoji from my partner = she doesn't love me anymore. That person smiling at me = he wants something from me. No photo of my grandchild = their parents don't appreciate me. Special experience while meditating = I'm great. And so on.
That's how our normal mind ticks.

Painless, is that possible? The question is how long the pain lasts and what significance I attach to it. Going through pain can be a path. When Mingyur Rinpoche got massive food poisoning while trying to escape from the Rinpoche life, he was ready to die - and was miraculously saved by a man.
Dramatic, well. I can make a drama out of any situation. Does that help me?
Relax. Yes, that's the point. Not taking myself and my perception and my brain stuff so terribly seriously.

22. Jun. 2026

The Wheel of Dharma

The Wheel of Dharma

When the sun rises and sets powerfully and steadily across the firmament, we catch a glimpse of one of the primordial qualities of the Dharmachakra (chakra = wheel), which usually has eight spokes. It is about the dominion of light, about…

6. Feb. 2026

Smile in the mind

Smile in the mind

It's about serenity. Ultimately. But first it's about differentiation: four ways of actively playing with our mind and its impetuous whirling are central (on the subject of 'smiling in the mind'): Firstly, controlling our immediate thought…

29. Dec. 2025

Mindfully ugly

Mindfully ugly

Hateful, angry, bad-tempered, grumpy. Powerful moods, but often somewhat restrained. Secretly, so to speak. Because I make a fist in the sack and am quiet and careful, so to speak, mindful, not at all blusteringly loud. Are people on the…